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Stories That Matter

Hero and Villain
August 2025 | 11 min read The Challenge of Writing About Someone Who's Both Hero and Villain

How do you write about a father who saved you and scarred you in equal measure? The same hands that taught me to tie on a fishing lures threw a chair through a bank window. This is about capturing someone who was simultaneously the best and worst thing that happened to your childhood...

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Chariot Story
July 2025 | 15 min read The Day My Dad Bought a Chariot

My dad bought an actual wooden chariot for twenty dollars. We rode it through downtown Colby until my brother's shoelace got caught in the wheel. This is one of a thousand stories about a brilliant, bipolar father who turned our small Kansas town into his personal theater...

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Writing Truth
June 2025 | 12 min read How Do You Write the Truth?

How do you write a memoir when the truth might break your family? How do you honor your experience while acknowledging mental illness made your father both villain and victim? For twenty years, I've been trying to answer this question...

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5 Things Learned
May 2025 | 10 min read 5 Things I Learned from Four Decades of Beautiful Chaos

Growing up with a bipolar parent taught me to be an emotional weather forecaster, a crisis negotiator, and a student of human resilience. Here are the unexpected lessons that shaped me...

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Wrestling Singlets
April 2025 | 8 min read Wrestling Singlets & Public Shame: A Fundraising Story

You haven't lived until you've worn a wrestling singlet in public. Now imagine wearing one on Main Street while asking strangers for money. This is how my family's most mortifying fundraiser became our most successful...

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Horse Transport Story
March 2025 | 12 min read The Great Horse Transport Disaster

How do you move two horses 50 miles with no horse trailer? If you're my dad, you use a flatbed, some rope, and an alarming amount of optimism. This is the story of the most terrifying drive of my childhood—and why I still can't look at a horse trailer without flashbacks...

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About Scott

Scott Murray

Writer, speaker, and reluctant expert on loving someone with bipolar disorder. Currently finishing my memoir, ALL OF IT, FOREVER.

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ALL OF IT, FOREVER

ALL OF IT, FOREVER

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A memoir about growing up with a bipolar father in small-town Kansas.